A man's first impression is primarily VISUAL - they are drawn to pretty girls and bright colors (whether it's a dress, shoes, jewelry, hair is a whole other story). It's a scientific fact that our brains are wired differently. distinction between the ways of men and women: Men and women are fundamentally different - not in terms of equality or worth as human beings, but in the ways they interact, behave and what each is initially attracted to. Here are some ways in which I think this book succeeds: However, a good 80% of it is genuinely good advice.Īs somebody who lived 25 years of her life being the complete opposite of a "Rules girl" and failing miserably at building healthy romantic relationships, I found myself a little more open-minded than the average person when it came to this book. OK, OK, about 15% of this book is complete nonsense, and probably about 5% is outdated. I think this book has gotten a lot of undeserved bad critique. But I bet you my right arm and both my ass cheeks that if a man had written such a book about women (eg: Men, here's how to control your woman and make her want you: Play hard to get, chicks totally dig that shit) he would be deemed a sexist monster. ![]() So why would you treat someone you claim to love like that?Īnd finally, isn't it funny how all these dating books are about men for women? Hey girls, here's how to control men! Love, some desperate single dumb ass. Would you ever manipulate a friend? Would you play this master/slave relationship or this paranoia game with a friend? I didn't think so. It's like being best friends with romantic connotations. It's about being equal, and loving each other, and growing together. And it's not about making them want you, or being paranoid about how faithful they are, or anything else being glorified in these stupid books. I might just be 19, but I think I have a pretty good idea of what a relationship is supposed to be. You're already too good for this book! Move along, go read something else, don't waste your time feeling bad about yourself by reading this garbage. And if you're a woman and you have trouble with a relationship, but you are not stupid, and not paranoid and have a pretty good idea of what a relationship requires, THEN YOU DON'T NEED THIS BOOK. This is like a last resort for women who are too damn stupid and paranoid to keep a relationship. Why do we have dating books like this? Dating books with these ridiculous, shallow ideas with no understanding of the true foundations of a relationship? This is not even dating. I know you're not like this, and even if some of you are, it's not because you're a man. I'm sorry that this book pretty much describes men as disgusting monkeys who have not a speck of human emotion, and I'm sorry this shit is published. I'm sorry that these women who wrote this shit are giving your girlfriends these horrible ideas about you and what they should do with you. You're making sure that they fucking worship the ground you walk upon, that they wait by the phone all day waiting anxiously for the sound of your sweet, beautiful breath, basically all that master/slave horse-shit.ĭear men, on behalf of all the women with brains, I apologise. ![]() And if you do that, like play hard to get (cuz that's totes romantic) they will be crazy about you forever and ever and will never cheat on you, because you're making sure that you're the center of their universe. And obviously this is a piece of cake in bizzaro-world where men have no brain in their head to think with. What does this book teach you? It teaches women how to manipulate men in order to keep 'em following them around like dogs. Men are not as evil as your man-hating senses may perceive them to be. ![]() Because apparently only then will you have them loyal to you forever. Honestly, what the shit kind of horrible person would write something like this? This book is sexist towards men AND women, absolutely shallow, ignores the real aspects of what a relationship is supposed to be built upon, and instead tells you that if you are a woman, you are supposed to have men at your feet. Then 'The Rules' is just the book to feed your fantasies. Are you shallow, desperate, immature, have no concept of reality or love, slightly sociopathic, and brain dead? Is it just too damn hard to keep your man at your heel? Are you tired of yanking that chain all day long?
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